The moon doesn't really change its shape! It's always a round ball. We just see different amounts of its lit-up side as it moves around Earth and the sun shines on it.
Heads upThe answer simplifies by not using terms like 'orbit' or 'phases' or describing the geometry of the Earth-Moon-Sun system. These concepts can be introduced once the child has a stronger grasp of spatial relationships and cycles.
For youThe phases of the Moon are due to the changing angles at which we view the Moon's illuminated surface from Earth. As the Moon orbits Earth, the amount of sunlight reflected from its surface that is visible to us changes over its roughly 29.5-day cycle. The Moon itself is always a sphere, half of which is always lit by the Sun, except during an eclipse.